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Business of Yoga Part I: Intentions for Success

October 24, 2019 by thebooktreefairy

The definition of success has many forms.  In order to approach our teaching career as a business, the first thing on our to-do list would be to define what success looks like.  Chances are, it will line up with what also brings joy, which also equates to getting paid for what we love.  More important than that, however, is the intention for becoming a teacher outside the realms of financial security.  

When you think of success, what does your world look like? What is your goal? For some educators, it is the ultimate picture of that private studio in a big city, while others may want to travel all over the world and document their teaching journey from exotic locations.  But we all start somewhere, and it can take time to discover what it is we truly want to achieve.

cathedral gates

 In the beginning, teaching can feel difficult in startling ways.  The stakes of achieving perfection right out of the gate are heightened and the desire to serve can, at times, be eclipsed by the desire to be liked by our students.  If teaching is your passion, or if you are just getting your instructor feet wet, any practice teaching is valuable hours earned. Whether we are teaching ten or one hundred people, each student who comes to class is sharing the singular dynamism they brought with them.  It is the students, first and foremost, who can assuage and even transform the energy of how you teach.

Below are some reminders when embarking on your journey.  Finding your motivation to serve, connect, and dive into the sensational world of teaching yoga takes a personal bravery.  Understanding your own parameters of success relates to finding your signature intention: 

  1. Have a message: When we approach our teaching engagements and trials with an attitude of excitement and mystery, we are apt to grow into astute and intuitive individuals, and thus, better teachers.  So take into account your own beliefs and knowledge about the branch of yoga you are exploring that week or the various meanings of a mantra. Prioritize your learning and practice above all else. When we begin to identify what draws us to the work that we do, our message will become clearer and clearer.  All the steps that brought you where you are today should be honored, even celebrated. It is your foundation, and you are helping to create that for your students. If you are interested in what you’re teaching, your students will be too.
  2. Observe the vibe: Ultimately, we are observing bodies as they move in space, and making sure no one hurts themselves during our careful sequence.  It is a journey of endless recording and insight. Each class serves as a reminder of how well we can explain what we want to see our students achieving, physically and mentally. If a sequence proves to be too challenging for the student body before you, then soften it while drawing from the same overall intention.  What are you trying to accomplish here with this sequence? How can it be modified? How we approach these unplanned hiccups reveals the hidden intention, because you are asked to put whatever plans you had for the class aside and surrender to the moment in order to make it the best class for all.  
  3. Know your worth: We all want to believe that the gift of teaching is enough. The way we revere our teachers that came before us, we think it should be.  There is a common misconception that the ego (that deems money as a necessity and gets anxious when it believes there isn’t enough to go around) should be silenced or transcended instead of integrated.  We all have expenses, not even including our own continuing education adventures. There are many types of pay scales, from students paying as they go, which makes you, the teacher an independent contractor, to having a membership at a gym.  Where you teach and how much you charge for private lessons informs how much money you make per class. Do your research. 
  4. Make the rounds: It takes practice to figure out what type of teacher you want to be, and how to hone your own style.  Western yoga-culture has definitely evolved, especially in the last ten years or so.  Depending on where you live and practice, the number of teachers getting certified can outweigh the classes and studios there is to fill them.  And if you are looking to make a living teaching yoga, where do you begin?  Knocking on gym doors and dropping off resumes is certainly a start, and many are willing to give a fresh instructor a chance to teach a class that always draws in students. This can feel overwhelming at first, as it is different than teaching in a studio. Fear not. Teaching in a gym also allows you to lead a large group, modify sequences often, and find your voice as an instructor.  Apply everywhere close by.
  5. Tune In: While you practice your own private meditation, try to imagine your version of paradise, where there are no obstacles to your dreams.  Notice your surroundings, the sights and smells, anything vivid you can paint with your imagination. Envision yourself rising after a long sleep.  What are you most excited about today? What is it you care about most and want to share with others? That is your gift, your way to serve. Use this intention, which is deeply personal, yet can apply universally because it represents an act of service and can be brought into any teaching environment.  Use your consciousness for good, as they say.
  6. Focus: All that choose this path of teaching, however regulated, either feed into or shatter the stereotypes of what we think of when we picture a yoga teacher.  Our ego loves to compare and measure. We come in all shapes and sizes, have studied in different schools and with teachers that range from the prestigious (whatever that means) to the virtually unknown, (but unforgettable).  When we practice, we remember those classes that affected us most, and I’ll bet you that it wasn’t at a giant festival with some famous yogi/DJ combo, however cool the balancing sequence was. So connect to the feeling signatures of remarkable practices you’ve had.  Flip through your memory. They won’t be hard to find. This may serve as a reminder of why you were drawn to teaching in the first place, and your appreciation for your own practice, which does not fit into a box but it shaped entirely by you, to mold as you please.
  7. Gratitude: Perhaps the greatest perk of the job is that being a yoga teacher allows you to deepen your own practice by guiding others. Think about it.  You get to spend a lot of time in intentionally stress free zones, hyper focused on your intention for the class and how they are listening, choreographing breath to movement, while at the same time heightening a sense of community, togetherness.  And when we give of our knowledge and energy—our time, unique experiences, and tips we’ve picked up along the way–we also receive something from our students. Their energy, focus, and attention. Give thanks. Without them, you’re just practicing alone.

What is most important to you on your teaching journey? It may be the students you get to meet and guide, the opportunity to learn mystic chants in archaic languages, or it could be the physiological deep strengthening of your breath and muscles to age gracefully and inspire others to do the same. Every teacher has their own exciting and, at times, thought-provoking career path that has as many challenges as it does rewards. 

pink lotus flower in a garden

A Plea for all Parents to Practice Yoga

October 12, 2019 by sofiabeer

The pressure on parents is actually insane. I’m serious. 

Overwhelmed? Yeah, You and Everyone Else

Mother and Daughter meditating on yoga mats
Mother and Daughter meditating on yoga mats

If you have kids and are completely stretched beyond your limit often, as in every-other-minute-often, you’re not abnormal. It’s a lot. And as if it wasn’t hard enough to take care of ourselves in a healthy, consistent, responsible, mentally stable kinda-way, now we have all of that, PLUS additional micro-humans to care for constantly. Micro-humans who cannot be trusted with a fork, let alone trusted to understand that we need things too- like a break occasionally, or a trip to the bathroom without needy little fingers and/or a curious eyeball peeking underneath the space between the closed door and the floor. But that’s not all. Oh-em-gee, THE JUDGEMENT that is tied to being a parent today is just paralyzing. If you formula-feed your baby, you’re lazy, clearly don’t possess maternal qualities, and probably should’ve bought a parakeet instead. If you breastfeed in public, you’re scarring every young male that sees you for life and is destining each one to a lifetime of debilitating porn addiction. If you vaccinate your kids, you’re letting Big Pharma inject cancer and autism into your precious babies for their corporate financial gain. Giving your child’s losing team a trophy will certainly make him entitled and he will be smoking a Juul by the time he is twelve. Don’t let your kids’ schools teach about global warming, but if you do, make sure your children know it’s caused by the parents who use disposable diapers and plastic straws. You get the point. It’s honestly maddening. So that’s why I hate to add one more “to-do” of never-ending, confusing parenting “do’s and don’ts” into the universe. But I have to, I really do. 

Practice Makes Perfectly Imperfect

Here goes: if you’re a parent, especially a mom, and even more especially a stay-at-home-mom, and you’re not practicing yoga, you’re doing it wrong. Very, very wrong.

What better way to find softness while living in a relentless state of being overwhelmed and under-slept than to spend an hour hanging out with your soul? An hour of concentrated peaceful self-love that includes a nap at the end?! Sign me up.

There’s just no better bang for your buck as far as sanity replenishment goes. I’ve been teaching yoga for a few years now, and regardless of what format I am guiding, I always begin the first few minutes of class in total silence. Even for me the instructor, those first moments, after a day that was surely bat-shit crazy, feel like a warm hug. Before I discovered my practice, as a stay-at-home-mom, my kids would run me ragged from before sunrise to after sunset and during all hours of the night. I kept active and worked out, but did psycho workouts like cardio kickboxing and spin classes. My body was in shape but my mind was absolutely, hopelessly, horrifically frazzled. I was checking off all the boxes, or so I thought, but something was missing. It wasn’t until I immersed myself in yoga that I realized that what I was yearning for was connection. Connection to my breath, my soul, and my body in a way that was dynamic, ever-evolving, and liberating as hell.

Get Lost in Space

How can we be available to our children if we are not available to our children? The only way to find the space needed to function, especially while being continuously pummeled by the intensity of parenthood, is to have space in general. It begins with the breath. It’s so simple. Not easy, but simple. Our minds become so entangled with the knots that life tie that things become foggy, our judgment becomes skewed, and we’re not doing anyone any justice, especially our children. It truly starts with just noticing that you are alive, that you are actually here in the present moment even if your brain may be tricking you into thinking otherwise, and the easiest way to do that is to notice your inhales and exhales. In time, that awareness can be linked to movement, which is a whole new level of magical, and in even more time, you may even be able to achieve the most advanced tier of yoga yet, which is really, really hard but really, really effective. No, it’s not a one handed-handstand with full lotus legs. It’s where you literally just sit quietly with your eyes closed and confront the depths of yourself. It’s called meditation, and that’s actually the goal. All of that movement and life-changing breaking-of-habits and sweating and growing and learning to just attain the ability to stand yourself for long enough to just… sit. It’s wild.

Self-Care at its Finest  

Parents, and stay-at-home parents, in particular, don’t have much choice but to givegivegivegivegivegivegive, it’s the nature of the job. Sure, there are special moments with your children, moments that make your heart feel like it very well might explode right out of your chest, but those moments are fleeting and tantrums and poop-filled diapers tend to demand a higher percentage of your attention. It can be so consuming. What yoga teaches is self-care, but in a different way. Sure, a consistent yoga practice will make you strong, leaner, and more flexible, but its real value comes in learning how to observe. As parents, our plans are consistently thwarted and frustration likely ensues. Say your toddler scribbles all over your new dining room table with a Sharpie, or you find out your teenager ditches school and goes to the mall instead. Now, imagine you have the capability, first, to not react, but to observe. Take a breath. Even for just a moment or two. Think of all the extra damage that could be avoided by taking just a second instead of flying off the handle immediately. Think of how much more effective we could be as parents if we constantly honed the tool of awareness and perspective. THAT is self-care, knowing that your reactions have ramifications, and putting the work in to make sure you are setting you and your family up for success later. And, that’s what you learn on your mat and why I’m urging parents everywhere to give it a go. Maybe selfishly because I know that more mindfulness will result in a better world, a world with less judgment about how much Cookie Crisp my son eats, but also I see it. I see the disheveled mom who runs into class two minutes late using her preschooler’s sippy cup as a water bottle because probably nothing else was clean, and I see how her soul soaks up the opportunity to just “be”. I know for myself that when all the things that I am most grateful for start to feel like the things I am least grateful for, my soul is getting dehydrated and I need a quenching round-house kick to the third eye via yoga, especially with an instructor who gets it- there are a lot who don’t, but that’s a topic for another time. 

Yoga for the People. Especially You.

So, whether or not you co-sleep, use pacifiers, or keep your kids in their rear-facing car seats until they’re eleventeen, it doesn’t matter. This is my plea, go to yoga. Take a class. Try a video at home. Step that beautiful, unique body onto your mat and begin the lifelong journey of getting to know yourself. Because while stretching is encouraged, the goal is to bend, not break. 

The Fall Equinox & Yoga

September 26, 2019 by cderegis

The Fall Equinox brings the transition from Summer to Fall. Transitions bring to mind the word change – this is a time for the closure of a cycle. During this transition, you can take the time to identify what you learned since the summer solstice and what are lessons you’d like to keep as you come into fall. An Equinox is when the daylight is the same as the darkness. Afterwards, we begin our descent into darkness. We use these seasons as an opportunity to turn inward and reflect on how we feel when the sun isn’t always shining.

The first day of Fall also coincides with the beginning of Libra season – symbolized by the scales. How can you invite balance back into your body and mind? We all exist with the duality of the Universe: masculine and feminine energies, light and darkness, yin and yang, peace and chaos. Identify where you feel your life could use more balance and work on bringing this balance into your life with the support of the seasons and stars.

How can we align ourselves with the Fall Equinox?

Many of us are probably not looking forward to shorter, darker days and longer, colder nights. However, this is Nature’s invitation to slow down. Shorter days mean less time for doing everything and more time for being still; and in the darkness, you might find it easier to find your light within. The Autumnal Equinox is the perfect time to reflect on what hasn’t served us and to practice letting go. To set new intentions for the season ahead, and to spend some time grounding, connecting with nature, and finding balance. Reflect on the following questions:

  • What areas of your life need more balance? How can you cultivate this balance? What do you need to change about your current lifestyle?
  • What have you harvested this year? What are you grateful for? Who helped you achieve a bountiful harvest? How can you thank them?
  • What cycles are you ready to free yourself from? What can you do differently to create more joyful cycles?
  • What lessons have you learned this past year? How can these lessons further your journey in healing and in finding strength?

Meditations, Intentions, and your Yoga Practice

  • Start a meditation practice if you don’t already have one. Start with 10 minutes every morning to just check in with yourself; your body, your breath, the fluctuations of your mind.
  • Take walks through nature by yourself or with a loved one. Reflect on how the changes outside affect your mood & body.
  • Cook yourself a meal. Be intentional with ingredients, with the way you prepare your food. Inviting love into your cooking will invite love into your body as you digest.
  • Really tune into your body as you practice. Start seated, feel your sit bones rooted down into the Earth. Take your practice a bit slower so that you can really give yourself time to feel how each subtle movement and muscle activation can change how your body feels. Try some balancing postures, notice how when you make subtle adjustments if that makes you fall or feel stronger – how can you apply this to your life? When you make subtle changes, you can cause yourself to fall or to feel stronger and more balanced. Take it inward. Do what feels best for your body and makes you feel strong. And remember when you fall, you can always get back up and try again.

All the luck as we begin this journey as a collective! You got this, Yogis! I hope you find intentions that help you release, let go, and find a balanced sense of grounding during these months. Leave comments for rituals you’ve found help you prepare for these colder and darker months!

Much love!

Cayla

Mat as Mirror

September 11, 2019 by kmychalowych

Person Rolling Green Gym Mat

My yoga mat changed my life. 

For a lifelong athlete– once a tennis player, once a power-lifter and (always) a competitor– that statement carries a lot of weight. 

I spent the majority of my childhood and early adulthood in grueling, miserable workouts, in every variety and shape you can imagine. Swimming, sprinting, strength-training… you name it, I did it. In my formative years, these efforts were primarily aimed at increasing my performance in my tennis game, or later, in power-lifting and competition-based workouts. But as life moved on and these “end-goals” dropped off, I found I carried the same drive and mentality when approaching general fitness and health. If I didn’t feel to the point of collapse after a workout, or any type of physical activity, it was a waste of time. If I didn’t push myself so hard I felt my lungs would burst, I would be better off not doing anything. If I didn’t work out at least six times a week, I had failed that week in my health goals.

Of course, this level of physical exertion is unsustainable. Of course, I didn’t know that. And one fateful day, I injured myself in a workout and everything changed. At first, I didn’t think anything serious was wrong. I’d had injuries before and knew how to deal with them. So, I took it easy for a week, did some minor workouts for another week, then was back in full swing the week after–despite lingering pain. 

But that pain never went away. I wasn’t in a position in my job or my life to admit to or deal with a serious injury, so I did what I always did: worked hard, and put the pain away. I did that for a long, long time. I learned, however unconsciously, to compensate around my injury, to avoid things that made it worse– until the pain so bad, so loud and terrible, that I couldn’t ignore it anymore. I finally went to see a doctor, and the therapies began. Every possible therapy and medication for chronic pain, I’ve tried. Every non-surgical procedure, I’ve had; every kind of pain-specialized doctor, I’ve been to. And none of it helped. In fact, these things only revealed the extent and depth of my injury, and other serious health issues that had also gone unnoticed before in my body. 

And then I stepped onto a yoga mat. 

I loved the physical practice at once, finding the asanas strengthening areas in my body I had never before considered. I learned to find flexibility and strength to support my injury, and relief from compensating around it for so long.

But practicing, at first, was still an extension of my old mindset. Each pose had to be done perfectly, and as challenging as possible–if I wasn’t tired and drenched in sweat by the end, my time had been wasted. I would snicker during chants of “Om,” tune out the instructors telling me to breathe, to find balance in my efforts; to seek internal and external harmony. What did they know, anyway?

Something kept drawing me back to the studio, more than just the physical asana and the respite from pain it provided. I began to soften in my listening around what my teachers had to say, beyond just calling poses and alignment cues. One particular phrase stuck with me: “Your mat is a mirror into your life.”

Was it? 

Was my jaw-clenching practice a mirror of how I approached my life? Were my endless efforts, my fixation with failures and shortcomings on my mat a reflection of my who I was as a person? 

I wrestled with these questions as I kept chipping away at the asanas, delving deeper into self-inquiry and the practice of mindfulness. I noticed some days that my practice was more difficult, drawn-out and painful; my mind unfocused and wondering when the class would be over. Coincidentally, these were also hectic days of high stress, either at work or in my personal life. With introspection and the ever-present mantra “mat as mirror” in my mind, I began to connect a pattern with how I handled stress– or rather, let stress handle me. I worked, (and am still working!), on finding peace and solace amidst difficult situations, picturing myself as a force against them and not them against me. Similarly, I try to picture myself as a force in my yoga practice when it becomes challenging, not the challenge controlling me. 

Other personality traits, both negative and positive, became apparent as I tested this mantra “mat as mirror.” I already knew that I loved to work hard, but I found that I didn’t know where to let ease balance my efforts. My mat showed me that I didn’t know how to give myself a break, to show grace and love towards myself, and not push away pain or fatigue. It was (and still is!) an active reminder to myself as I practice, to let ease into my life and body when I need it, to cultivate “sthira sukha” as a lifestyle and philosophy.

Another notable example of “mat as mirror” was my self-talk throughout my practice, specifically as I held balance poses. I remember thinking, “you will fall, you will fall,” every time I came close to losing my balance; and, consequently, I would fall. I identified my self-talk in other life-situations was comparably negative or defeatist, whether about my ability in a task at work or in my relationships. I consciously began to change my inner dialogue around balance poses; instead thinking “you are strong and stable.” This shift in my daily practice on my mat is slowly transferring into my everyday life, and I have found myself more at ease and confident as a result. 

The wonderful thing about this practice is that it gives us the chance to do all of this inquiry, self-examination and introspection–and to start anew each day. “Mat as mirror” has become integral to who I am as a person, as a practitioner, and now as a teacher– a daily reminder for myself and my students. We are complete beings–the same person, the same body in every situation; we cannot remove parts or dilute ourselves based on external factors.

Our mats, and our practice, hold power and potential beyond the mere physical postures. Are we pushing ourselves too hard, past simple discomfort into pain? Do we do that in other areas of our lives? Or are we not pushing ourselves hard enough, giving up when challenges arise? Is that likewise how we handle difficulties outside the studio?

My yoga mat has been a gateway to freedom, empowerment, and self-discovery. It is a mirror I hold to myself daily, not solely for deep, personal inquiry, but sometimes just for a mood check or a body scan–how I’m feeling or moving. My mat reveals truths about all parts of my life that are sometimes too shrouded or elusive; it reminds me to stay present and connected in my body. It has (and still is) working on me just as I work upon it, showing me who I am and reminding me that I am not fixed or immutable. 

My mat is my mirror. 

My mat changed my life. 

Balancing Poses: Beginner to Advanced Modifications

August 28, 2019 by Rachel Solomon

Yoga helps you find your balance. In the most obvious sense, you gain control of your daily movements as a direct result of practicing “asana” (postures). It becomes easier to put on your shoes, to catch yourself when you trip, or to hike up a mountain trail. If you are a diligent yoga practitioner, you will become more graceful over the course of years, and be less likely to injure yourself. Simply the act of daily attempting the postures trains the body, creating muscle memory that kicks in throughout all areas of life, not just on the yoga mat. Indeed, many seniors have found that a regular yoga practice allows them to maintain high levels of activity well into retirement, when bone density may become an issue, and falls carry an increased risk of serious injury. Even a beginning yogi can modify balancing postures, with the assistance of chairs, blocks, or the wall. Starting with a modified version and working your way up to the traditional posture can help ease the way towards developing the confidence to progress in your practice. Here are a few balancing postures to try, with various modifications. 

Tree Pose: The traditional posture has the raised foot resting on the thigh, hands above the head. But the raised foot can also be lower, toes resting on the ground, and the sole of the foot on the ankle. Work your way up as you gain confidence in your balance. The second foot placement is between the ankle and knee. The heel should be underneath the knee, toes pointing straight down, just above the ankle. Once you’ve mastered that, move the foot up to the thigh. Be sure to maintain proper foot alignment, keeping the foot pointing straight down and fully above the knee. Avoid pushing on the knee joint with the raised foot, as that can cause injury. If your balance seems a bit wobbly, float your fingers against a wall or on the back of a chair. For an extra challenge, try prayer hands behind your back. 

  • side plank leg up

Thread the needle with leg raise: Raising the leg during thread the needle is both a balance challenge and a core strengthener. The raised leg is opposite the shoulder resting on the ground. Lift the leg on an inhale, pushing through the heel and flexing the toes. Drop the elbow down to stabilize yourself if you become shaky. 

Chair pose: Traditional chair pose keeps both feet on the ground. Practicing chair with one leg up, ankle resting on the opposite knee, will train you to be able to lift one leg at a time and balance easily on the other. Sink your hips low, keeping hands together at heart center. Try to rest your forearms on the raised leg. Keeping your gaze low on the ground in front of you, and focussing on a single point, will help you remain stable. To increase the challenge, try to grab your standing ankle with both hands. 

Chair pose, airplane variation: Begin with traditional chair pose; hands are up in the air, knees bent, hips set back. Take a deep breath in, and on an exhale sweep your hands back and up while lowering your chest down to your knees. Try to lift your heels off the ground – this can be a large movement, coming on to your toes with the heels elevated a few inches, or a slight movement with just the heels lifting less than an inch. As you breathe in again, return to chair pose. Repeat 3-5 times, always going with your breath.

Crow pose: Although many beginning yogis see this pose as unattainable, it really is much easier than it first appears. Successfully achieving crow pose is more about finding your fulcrum, the balancing point where your knees are resting on your elbows, than it is about arm strength. Yes, you do need arm strength. But you need not be a weight lifter with giant muscles to find your way into this pose. The key is bringing your gaze low, between 12 and 18 inches in front of you on the ground. Elbows point straight back towards the short end of the mat. Open your knees out wide, tucking the elbows directly under the knee. Slowly and carefully, begin to shift your weight onto your elbows. Once you find the fulcrum where your weight begins to pull you down in front, shift back. Practice rocking back and forth on the fulcrum with your toes resting gently on the ground. If you feel confident enough to come up onto your toes, try lifting one foot at a time ever so slightly, and then trading back and forth. Having a block underneath your forehead can alleviate the fear of falling. If practicing at home, surrounding yourself with pillows can help as well. For an extra challenge, cross your ankles before coming into the pose. Try to go back and forth, crossing and uncrossing and switching which foot is on top. See how many times you can switch, and then try to beat yourself the next time!

Side plank: Traditional side plank is quite a challenging pose. But there many variations of this pose that allow a beginner to confidently progress, eventually achieving the most difficult version. To begin, keep the lower knee down on the mat, with the foot perpendicular to the body, off the mat. Intermediate students can stagger the feet, with both knees off the ground. This gives a wider base on which to balance. Finally, stack the feet, keeping both knees elevated. If wrist pain and weakness is an issue, try side plank with the forearm down. Weight is distributed over a larger area, alleviating pressure on the wrist. For an extra challenge, try to lift the upper leg. Begin by floating it just a few inches above the lower leg, and then try to progress into lifting it higher and higher.

While trying these poses, remember that yoga is a “practice” and life is the real thing. Everything you learn on the mat can be taken applied to situations outside of the studio. In a physical sense, increasing your ability to balance on the mat will increase your confidence as you move through life, and decrease the chances of injury. But in some ways, the physical effects of yoga are only secondary to the psychological effects. While we are training the body to balance, our minds receive benefits as well. We learn to balance the monotonous demands of our daily lives with the pursuit of happiness, and the temptation of immediate pleasures with the satisfaction of holding out for something better down the road. In some ways, all of life is one great balancing act, between giving energy to others as parents, friends, or employees, and taking needed time to ourselves for relaxation and self care. The balance of self care is so important because if you fail to care for yourself, you lose the ability to care for others as well. So take some time today to work on your balance – physical, emotional, and psychological. Find the sweet spot between pushing yourself to go further, and patiently allowing time for growth without injury. Close your eyes, take some deep breaths, and look for the balance between relaxation and productivity. Most importantly, find a balance between what you bring to your mat, what you leave behind, and what you take home.

Stepping out of the studio: Unique DFW flows

August 25, 2019 by laureneritchie

Alpaca’s & Disco & Skylines, oh my!

As we bid adieu to summer, it’s time to find new ways to stay engaged as schoolbooks, conference calls and carpool schedules threaten to impede on our fitness resolutions.  We’ve highlighted a few of the many upcoming events in the Dallas/Fort Worth area to get both beginners and experienced yogi’s creative juices ‘flow’ing.

With Labor Day upon us those without travel plans can follow their mat to a slew of cool local events, including starting the holiday weekend off with live music yoga on Friday evening (8/30, 7 pm local time) at Indra’s Grace studio (http://indrasgrace.com) just a stone’s throw from the bustling Magnolia Ave strip in Fort Worth. Texas natives, The Cush, will accompany Indra instructor Kasey Bell in an energetic flow sure to set the stage for a festive weekend. Follow that up the next day by attending the 13th Annual Dallas Yoga Festival (http://dfwfreedayofyoga.com/) in Main Street Garden Park in downtown Dallas. Not only can you join the largest free community yoga class in the DFW area, but this family friendly event also boasts music, food, and shopping vendors as well as giveaways to sunset. Partnering with over 20 yoga studios, including North Texas Bikram Yoga and City Yoga, you can find inspiration and guidance from local instructors and explore new options for your weekly practice.

If you’re in search of other outdoor options for Labor Day weekend, head to Uptown for a barnyard bonanza at The Rustic on Saturday August 31st at 9 a.m. Not only can you partake in the goat yoga craze that’s sweeping the nation, but “It’s for Charity” has taken this experience to the next level with celebrity appearances, alpaca’s Jolene and Rita! Proceeds to this event benefit local non-profit and mental health advocates via The Reminder Project (@heresyourreminder). For additional furry friend facetime, head over to Flea Style (https://fleastyle.com) the first Saturday of September (9/7) for an all-level bunny and piggy practice that boasts plenty of post vinyasa playtime and selfies. Following your flow, snag a complimentary hard cider and peruse the 80+ vendors of local jewelry, décor, clothing, and culinary finds that the store has to offer. If retail therapy is your go-to Saturday activity, make sure you’re in Plano on the 7th to catch a 9 a.m. Yoga Sculpt class at the Fabletics in Legacy West before your shopping spree. Head over to the Dallas Observer event page to RSVP, and bonus, it’s free to attend so all your budget can be spent on that new pair of yoga pants you’ve had your eye on.

If balancing adorable pigmy goats on your back isn’t your scene, you have each Wednesday in September to get yo glam on. Sweet Tooth Hotel (https://sweettoothhotel.com) and Dallas Fitness Ambassadors have partnered to bring you GLOW, a silent disco fitness series celebrating “music, movement and art.” Each week you have opportunity to not only partake in a 45 minute yoga practice with the co-owner of Class Studios (@class_studios), but each admission also includes access to the DISCOTECH art installation, a post sweat sesh cocktail at Reign, the hotels Prince themed bar, as well as a full glitter and glam area to get you fully decked out in glow paint and body jewels for that perfect ‘grammable moment. Snag your tickets on Eventbrite before the series concludes, and while you’re there check out Dallas Fitness Ambassador’s (@dallasfitnessambassadors) FAME Fest happening later in the month (9/27 & 9/28) for more boutique classes, arts and music fun. Studio partners include sexy up and comer to the Dallas area, TruFusion (@trufusion_dallas), which is a multi-class studio concept popularized by the likes of Jennifer Lopez and boyfriend investor A-Rod. In addition to power, flow & vinyasa practices you can box, spin, squat and plié in a variety of heated and non-heated class options.

Silent disco flow at Sweet Tooth Hotel, by Kathy Tran

Patio season is also upon us, so whether you’re looking for a view or something new to do there is a flow for that! Not far from the Stockyards you can flow al fresco on September 14th at Topgolf, which is launching their new brunch menu with a practice on their terrace overlooking the downtown Fort Worth skyline. What better way to open your hubby’s heart chakra than an hour of complimentary gameplay and free Topgolf swag?? Or for those downtowners looking for something within walking distance, on September 28th yogis can flow in Sundance Square at 9 a.m. All levels are welcome and it’s free to boot!

Sundance Square, Fort Worth, TX

If you’ve spent time in Lower Greenville, you already know that it boasts some of the best brunch spots in Dallas. Take your hair of the dog up to the rooftop of HG SPLY CO and practice with CorePower Yoga on Saturday the 14th. Ticket holders get a chance to win a free month of yoga and HG gift card for your next night out! CorePower Yoga is a nationwide staple and will be opening its 6th DFW location soon in the West Village. Each location boasts a wide variety of classes for those looking to try hot yoga, learn new inversions, or even unwind with a meditative candle-lit yin experience. Rounding out the month, DALLASITES101 (https://www.dallasites101.com) has brought back their rooftop yoga series in Deep Ellum. You even have time to sneak in a lazy Sunday morning before heading over to Bottled Blonde (@bottledblondetx) for an 11 a.m. free flow. Nothing says downward facing dog like bottles of Dom Perignon after, am I right?

So come on DFW, get inspired, and we’ll see you on the mat!

Healing Anxiety Through Mediation

August 11, 2019 by Brandon Jamil

woman meditating in lotus pose
woman meditating in lotus pose

For most of us, it’s common to wake up and immediately feel stressed out about the day ahead. Bogged down with endless to do lists, responsibilities, daily practicalities; anxiety begins to loom over us, and we can’t fathom taking a moment to ourselves to truly connect, and when we do, we’re faced with re-living our anxiousness.
Suddenly, we read an article, or watch a YouTube from one of our favorite influencers—that tells us the benefits of mediation. We’re told everything from sound peace of mind, stress management, healthier mental process, etc. But we’re not sold. If life could only be so…Simple. Even though we’re not convinced, we attempt at mediation. What harm could it cause? After all, five or ten minutes in the morning is harmless right?
Finally, we find ourselves listening to guided mediations, and breathing exercises by some of the top spiritualist, thought leaders. Slowly we can see the changes in our moods, attitudes. As time progresses, we’re thinking positive, enjoying the benefits of putting the dedication, and hard work we’ve committed to ourselves.
And then… Life happens.
Something that we weren’t expecting to happen, does. Our day becomes unmanageable, we’re struggling in some aspect of our life, and the anxiety resurfaces. The feelings of powerlessness meet’s us in our need to get everything done, but the problem is… We don’t know how to handle the emotions that we’re processing—which leads us to feel paralyzed. We then believe that perhaps we just need sleep, and we can start over the next day. Until we lay down and discover our anxiety is looming over us like a black cloud.
What happened? You may ask yourself. You thought anxiety was a thing in the past. You’d overcame it and can’t identify with that person who was always on edge, who was so shaking and fragile.

The truth is, it’s easy to feel despair, and lonely when confronting anxiety. We crave control and thrive on it. We return to our mediation practice day after day, hoping that we’ll find ever lasting peace of mind. Perhaps we’ll find our nirvana. But what if I told you that losing control, feelings of despair are a good thing? Yep, that’s right!

I have personally found that mediation is best used as a tool to enable self-exploration that promotes self-awareness, profound inner peace by leaning in and looking at the painful aspects of ourselves dead in the face. Furthermore, as we observe our discontentment and dis-ease, we realize that our psyche is inviting us to embrace these so-called negative aspects that we’d rather judge, flee and abandon.

When we choose to reject feelings of anxiety, despair, discontentment we approach our mediation practice with the intention of resistance. Resistance shows up as: “I must focus on the positive.” This is to say that we spend our mediation time avoiding our truth and become undone the moment our true feelings surface throughout our day. However, we must keep in mind that our mediation practice is ours and this is the space we create for ourselves to be as naked, vulnerable as we need to, and without apology.

By allowing ourselves to lean into our discomfort, we give ourselves permission to feel out of control. Anytime we give ourselves permission to heal by first acknowledging anxiety, we build self-trust and allow feelings to surface without harshly judging ourselves or our mental state.

The moment we can release the need to neglect any part of ourselves and build self-trust— we then find ways to work with what we’re feeling and thinking. As our day progresses and the stress factors show up, we can choose to go with those feelings. Our anxiety becomes our practice by checking in with ourselves and not taking on a victim mentality. The next time you’re in your meditation, simply allow whatever feelings that exist below the surface to arise. This can be feelings of joy, peace, contentment. Or it can be hostility, pain, suffering, resentment, anger, fear. Whatever feeling you experience allow it to come out of you, allow your breath to pull it to the light and dissolve. At first you may that you can’t quiet your mind, and the restless voice that is repeating in your head won’t stop. That voice in your head has a space in your mediation. Give it some love by allowing yourself to hear it out. You will find out that there’s no need to control your thoughts or attempt to make yourself feel anything. Your job is to show up for yourself, and as you address and explore your feelings—you’ll be able to work through it with a new story that frees you from it altogether.
It can be dangerous to force ourselves to paint positivity over our traumas and anxieties, because we don’t allow ourselves to build healthy self-esteem. While it’s true that positive thinking can in-fact change our entire life, and possibly assist in our healing—we can’t skip the steps to building our mental and emotional foundations. When you’re meditating and the same old stories and anxieties come to surface, it can cause us to feel that we’re not getting anywhere. Keep in mind that healing the emotional body and mental landscape is like physical exercise. We don’t get easy results at first—we must earn it. As we persist in our exercise, we slowly begin to witness changes in the body, and we desire to push our bodies to see further growth.
In mediation, we’re not pushing our emotions. We’re setting the stage to examine them, as we consistently do that; we become comfortable with leaning into our emotions. Feeling our emotions helps us deal with our triggers. Our triggers are the body’s reaction to external stimuli. Once we allow ourselves to confront these triggers in our mediation, the body starts its own healing process. The healing process naturally helps us deal with heavy emotional weight such as anxiety.
Healing anxiety through mediation can cause us to feel overwhelmed. There are days we feel extremely happy, and the next day we can feel highly sensitive. This emotional imbalance is a key indicator that our body is regulating itself. Needless-to-say, the body and the emotions are becoming congruent; which is a shock to the nervous system. Keep in mind that your immediate inclination will be to recoil. Instead of recoiling, show up for yourself. You’ll be reminded that you can land safely now that you’re building a healthy self esteem and foundation. So, I invite you to explore, fall and get back up. Do it again, and land.

Alas,
Breath by breath. You find your center.

How To Cleanse and Activate Your Crystals in 5 Steps

August 10, 2019 by kayleenmesa

book about crystal healing surrounded by crystals and a buddha vase on a blanket

Hi beautiful souls! with full moon coming up (August 15th) I wanted to share with you steps for cleansing and activating your crystals during this cycle.

Crystals have become very popular over the past couple of years. These beautiful and powerful stones hold the life-giving elements of the Earth and the universe. Harnessing the energy of the Sun, the Moon, and the oceans, they help to create a special connection between us and mother earth.

This is an ancient pagan practice, where a crystal is used to flush out the negative energy and obstacles from a human body. Laying on of stone involves placing crystals on or around the victim in order to remove vetoing energy.

For centuries, crystals and other gems have been desired for their alleged magical healing and mystical powers. This belief continues today among occultists and New Age healers.

Nowadays Crystals are used during holistic practices and alternative medicine such as massage, meditation, and acupuncture. They are put on or around your body to start the healing process. The crystals can act as a channel for healing which can help positive and healing energy flow into the body, causing negative energy to be drawn out. They are known to have been used for prevention of disease and curing of illnesses.

Another great use of healing crystals comes when creating sacred spaces, which will also helps to enhance and support any healing therapies such as meditation, yoga, journaling, and other similar activies. It’s common knowledge that interior design can affect your mood and well-being. The most important aspect of a sacred space is how the energy feels. Every room in your home should feel special and comfortable for your lifestyle and needs, a basic guideline for optimal living and well-being. In particular, your sacred space should serve as the place where you leave behind the chaos of the world, in addition to any negative energy that might be affecting you, and go inward to heal and restore the mind-body-spirit.

In this wonderful world of vibrations, crystal energy helps you on your spiritual journey because it works to hold your intention and remind you of your connection to the Earth. A well thought out intention is the starting point for healing crystals because specific intentions will most likely guide you into your daily thought patterns and will also become part of its energy.

If you’re just beginning to use crystals, a great way to harness their healing power is by using healing stones for manifesting your intentions and what you want to create in your life. 

When choosing your crystals, let your intuition guide you to choose the right healing stones for your spiritual journey. Crystal experts often say that the crystal chooses you instead of the other way around. Take your time, have fun and see what crystals stand out to you. Whether it’s the dazzling colors, sparkles or otherworldly shapes and patterns that draw you in, each crystal has a unique vibrational energy that works to clear blockages and ward off negative energy. It also helps to identify a particular problem or challenge you’re currently facing. 


Finding the right stone is like any practice of wellness. I also like to think of it as a creative and magical experiment. It requires time and patience while you quiet the mind and realign the mind/body balance. Hold the stone in your hand and carefully think of your intention. Notice if you feel sensations such as hot or cold, pulsations, or a sense of peace and tranquility. These are all signs that this particular rock is perfect for your healing needs. Remember- your intuition will be your best friend here!

CLEANSE & ACTIVATE YOUR CRYSTALS IN 5 STEPS

1. WASH THEM WELL.
A simple rinse under the faucet will do here. If you live near the ocean or a stream it’s ideal to wash them there.

2. SET YOUR CRYSTALS OUT.
The ideal time to put them out is just after sunset. A natural surface is best outside. If that isn’t an option put them near a window where they will get direct moonlight. As you set each one down name something you want to let go of. You can name the same thing over and over or pick a different one with each crystal. Don’t name more than 5, it’s too many and will start to lower our vibration. This is a supportive practice that helps to seal in what we are ready to release with this full moon.

3. PULL THEM IN THE NEXT MORNING
It’s nice to give them a little reboot with the sun’s energy, but not for too long. Through sunrise is a great rule of thumb.

4. CHARGE YOUR CRYSTALS WITH INTENTIONS
This is one of my favorite parts of the ritual, it’s even more important than naming what we want to release. Once you have all of your crystals back inside charge them with your intentions. Charging crystals with your energy helps them stay focused. Once they are charged it’s best to not let others handle them (unless you are charging specifically for others or client work) as they will absorb the energy of other people.

You can charge all of your crystals at once by imagining them soaked in healing energy. They can also be charged individually or in groups. It’s really up to you, there is no right or wrong way to charge them, let your intuition be your guide.

Here are some examples of what I am planning for this cycle:

  • Charging Rose Quartz with love to support my relationship.
  • The stones I use with clients will be charged to intensify their healing properties.
  • Smokey Quartz with energy to help me stay grounded during the transition into a new season.

5. CLOSE THE RITUAL
I like to close the cleansing and charging ritual with thank you prayers and white candle. A simple thank you to Mother Earth for the ways she supports our life and a humble bow to the crystals for all of the work that they do. Acknowledging all of the elements that came together to make these healing tools seals in their healing vibrations and reminds us to stay focused on what matters most to our hearts. After giving thanks I burning a little cedar, sage or palo santo to bring in more positive energy and close the ritual.

Allow yourself to be open to exploration. Step into the knowing that magic exists for you no matter what. Our thoughts create vibrations throughout the universe, which makes setting intentions a powerful tool for achieving happiness and well-being. Having a clear purpose provides us with insight into our aspirations, dreams, beliefs and values. It also helps us to focus and live in the present moment instead of being caught in negative thought patterns. Intentions are like magnets. That’s why it’s important to be careful and make sure to choose the appropriate thoughts and desires. Setting an intention is a powerful tool for achieving happiness. Crafting an intention starts by setting goals that align with your values, aspirations, and purpose.

May all your wishes come true!

Footnotes:
https://crystalbenefits.com/crystal-uses
https://www.energymuse.com/
https://crystabelles.bigcartel.com/

Sensation and Repose: Yin and Restorative Yoga

July 12, 2019 by thebooktreefairy

Consider a curious bystander, strolling by the window of a yoga studio.  He or she may see a group of students on the floor, head down in surrender. There are many props scattered around the mats and the bodies lie slumped in stillness, in what looks like a comfortable position. They are straddling a bolster, perhaps.  Naturally, anyone not actually experiencing the class may assume it was on the Restorative side.  This is not your usual flowy Power Vinyasa with standing poses and sweat.  And when this anonymous prospective yogi decides to pick up a schedule at the door, the bubble font reveals the words: Yin/Restorative.

Yin and Restorative yoga are quite often described interchangeably in class descriptions.  Anyone looking to begin or deepen their practice can be left scratching their head when they enter a labeled Yin class expecting some R & R and are called upon to become aware of their deepest physical, and oftentimes emotional layers, in a given asana (pose).  That is because Yin yoga targets the connective tissue of the body– the bones, ligaments, and joints–through passive stress, in often supine positions.  Restorative yoga uses props to physically support the body so that a yogi can exert minimal effort in a position, and find the greatest state of ease.  This encourages the parasympathetic nervous system to switch on and promote relaxation. 

clouds over a curving mountain road at sunset

The Yin in the modern Yin yoga tradition can be seen through the lens of the classical Taoist principles of Yin and Yang.  Yin is the feminine aspect of the two, and is associated with the moon (cooling poses) while Yang is considered a dynamic, masculine qi or chi energy (life force) inducing practice, and is associated with the sun (heating poses).  Although the roots of Yin and Yang yoga have blossomed out of the principles of Chinese medicine, it is the western appropriation that has cultivated this tradition.  In Yin yoga, the body is put into positions that are designed to strengthen and mobilize the joints in order to release the sensory depth of the stagnant, tight and uncomfortable parts of the body such as hip flexors and knees.  Poses are held for an extended period of time so that they may give way in the body, bringing sensations to the surface (physical and yes, some emotional).  In these poses of surrender, in a state of passivity, we cannot avoid our inner life. How we treat what comes up is apparent in the quality of the ease we find in our practice. The sensations of Yin can even be described as a volcanic opening of prana (chi), extreme sensation, and, well, the opposite of the relaxation we come to expect when we see the word “restorative” in a class description. 

Here’s where the confusion ultimately lies.  It is in that word “restore,”–which many of us take to mean “soften” or “ease”–that plays an integral part in how we define and practice Yin yoga.  In this case it does not exactly equal comfort.  In Yin yoga to restore means to rebuild, re-experience, re-lease, which leads to the stretching of the fascia, or deep muscle tissue.  When you’re in a Yin pose, like Pigeon for instance, for a long period of time–that is, several minutes–our experience of the pose can cause sensations to volley up and down like a strongman carnival game.  The vitality and vulnerability that a Yin pose can exhume into awareness can be healing nonetheless, which is also the prime goal of Restorative yoga, as we know it. To heal.

Restorative yoga comes from the ancient Indian tradition of Hatha Yoga, and most recognizable in the teachings of BKS Iyengar, author of Light on Yoga, among others.  He was an instrumental figure in spreading knowledge of the yoga sutras and his own teachings to the world.  When he was developing his practice, he would use objects he encountered, such as trees, chairs, and even boulders to wrap himself around, in an attempt to find that ease so sought after while sitting in meditation, and to improve his overall health.  The assistance of props provides added support for the spine and the surrounding muscles, especially for those recovering from injuries.  In an aptly named Restorative class, props are used to assist in opening rather than stretching the body, and in a way that is aimed at achieving a sense of relief rather than deepening a posture to arouse a physical responsiveness.  Restorative yoga activates the (parasympathetic) rest and digest system, slows the heart rate, conserves energy, and releases the muscles in the gastrointestinal tract. 

On the outside an asana assumes the same outward shape no matter what the class is labeled. Poses crossover all the time across the many categories of yoga classes and traditions.  You will often hear poses being called by different names in a Yin verses a Restorative class because although the pose bears the same shape, the activity in the body is observed through a different perspective, and oftentimes elicits an entirely different response in the body.  For example, in the Hatha tradition Cobra pose, the legs as well as the arms are activated, anchored to the floor, pressing down.  The muscles are contracted.  In the Restorative version of the same name, a rolled blanket can be placed underneath the pelvis, elbows on the floor, or a chair can be used with the hands wrapping back on the seat or resting on the knees.  In Yin’s Seal pose, the legs are soft, pelvis sinks into the mat and the arms support the chest while the energy reaches towards the sky from the crown of the head, both elongating the upper back while releasing the tail bone towards the floor.  The sensation becomes isolated as the weight from your center of gravity sinks down. 

clouds in the sky and trees over a lakeshore

Some believe these two types of yoga, since they have elements of each other that overlap, they are the same, and it simply is not true.  What is true, is that the student goes into a position mindfully, slowly.  Poses are held for a lengthy amount of time.  Yet while there are similarities, the intention, the inner work, the energetic experience and mental roller coaster that Yin can catalyze, tells a very different story.  Both practices, however, bring us back to ourselves, and, as in all types of classes, aim to facilitate a control of the mind toward allowing what is true for the yogi to come into awareness, to realize their own power as well as their tenderness and receptivity. Yin Yoga and Restorative are practices much needed in today’s predominantly Yang society. It gives us a chance to return to our center, focus on our breath and rest the mind in order to allow vital healing to take place and gather some of our hidden strength along the way.

When it comes to definitions, it makes sense that the semantics are intertwined when their intentions and origins are what isolates them.  Although both practices were largely cultivated and exploited here in the English speaking world, calling them by the same name (even separated by a hyphen or slash) does a disservice to them both, and can discourage and confuse a student who has a particular physical need, injury, or intention.  This is like saying that wading in a river and jumping into the ocean waves are alike because you can call them both swimming.  Yet the blunder is understandable, especially since they have components of one another within each of them and are equally essential to a healthy and complete yoga practice.  

Diana Benigno

A Spontaneous Surrender

May 22, 2019 by thebooktreefairy

The practice of yoga is more than just a physical activity.  We know this because whatever pose (asana) we are faced with during a particular practice we will have an opinion about, an expectation.  We will want to push our bodies to test our strength and flexibility, dancing around our breaking point for the sake of achieving what looks like an elegant back bend or deep, hip-opening lunge. We combat the rest that is aching to peak through in a pose in order to achieve our own ego’s yoga aesthetic. This can prove difficult to maintain, all the while breathing fully and completely, just as the teacher instructs. At times we unconsciously hold our breath in response to the buzzing of our mind, our judgments of everything, and the role yoga itself is supposed to play on the speeding train that is our daily grind.

We can observe yoga as a series of movements, whether still or connecting poses in a flow. Either way, we guided by the breath’s rhythm. Yet when we move through vinyasas, or rest and restore, our practice is accompanied by the repetitive lesson to truly live in the present moment, which is largely preached, in tandem, with the concept of surrender. So how to we achieve this ‘letting go,’ while attempting to balance all the energies that are blasting off inside our body and mind? How do we feel the lift-off of alignment?

Om Card

We are obsessed with achievement, whether mastering a pose, project, relationship, or even life itself.  We all know that moment during practice, when sheer will is what it takes to stand the heat in the room or the bubbling volcano in your gut.  It’s an Ashtanga (flow) class, perhaps.  We’ve just done some version of Surya Namaskar (salute the sun) and our legs are burning.  In and out of planks and lunges we have flowed, and now, it is peak-pose time.  We know we’ll have to feign that illustrious effortlessness, and even though everyone in class in concerned with their own appearance, the drive toward projecting internal balance is the strongest desire we know.  And it hurts.

Now, here it comes.  We are guided to put all our weight on the front foot, root the heel, move that front hand to the block or the floor, and just float up, they say, into half-moon pose (Ardha Chandrasana). As simple as the moon rising in the evening, you hear and resent. Although this moon is rising so close to the earth, seemingly against gravity.  And you feel it. Your muscles shake. Your chest sinks against the pressure. Does the actual moon feel this heavy tacked up there in the sky? We wonder. Who knows where the breath is now because your lungs are frozen in space, trying not to fall towards the knees.

“Surrender,” the instructor says, from the comfort of their seated posture.  It sounds more like a command than an invitation.  “Find ease,” is the suggestion that usually comes next.  Suddenly, the monkey mind bounces on our shoulders, causing our fingers to twitch and jaw to clench.  Five seconds seems an eternity. Forget about five more breaths. Sometimes we can already see ourselves falling, and pretty soon we have detached, but not in the ‘enlightened’ way.  It’s the kind of consciousness dislodge where we don’t understand our body anymore.  Where there once was ease there is now pressure. The mind is just too busy, telling this story, wanting to achieve perfection.  The harsh image of a slivered edge of a window pane crosses our mind’s eye and it causes us to feel wobbly and heavy. Pretty soon you don’t even hear the instructor anymore, caught in the web of tension that is your body at this precise moment.

Tension or stiffness in the body is a sign that our connection to Ishvara (our soul supreme, our “special” self, our inspiration) is lessening, growing more distant, or has faded. This is a stressful thought in and of itself until we remind ourselves that bridging that connection to our deepest self is like lifting off a par of sunglasses to take in the sunshine. In yoga classes there are many esoteric principles and ideas that sneak its way into our practice and serve as a guide for our moving meditation.

We want to receive the wisdom we read about in our favorites stories and mythology, but we are so caught up in the whirlwind of self-doubt and fear that we freeze, just before the embodiment, or ‘awakening’ rather, of this elusive concept–connection to the divine self–takes hold.  We have pushed its inherent meaning (yoga, aka to “yoke” toward yourself) behind our desire to make everything all about our failure to fly, to blame it’s absence for our stagnation. Who we are, that which we call ourselves by, becomes the most important thing, instead of connecting to that aspect of the self that is just beyond the shadows, waiting to be acknowledged. When we try to push that part down thinking that is what stands between us and a ‘perfect’ practice, we achieve nothing, but more tension, more blocks, and probably an achy back.

Joseph Campbell supposedly stated: “The cave you fear to enter holds the treasures that you seek.” In order to find that which we deem valuable, it is the fear of failure, injury, or embarrassment that stands in the way. Yet notice, none of those things are concrete reasons not to take a risk or push your edge in practice. I guarantee, the other side does not hold more suffering, even if physical balance is not yet achieved.

How can we possibly hold on to our bodies when we are asked to relinquish all effort? How to we lift the body away from the earth while imagining ourselves being supported by it? Why is the teacher making me do this?  The thoughts don’t stop.

We fail to dissolve the agitations of the mind. We lose the belief that we even have something to offer, let alone give it freely for the sake of letting it go without thanks or compensation.  This sensation may be brief, but when it rises up it practice, it is a heavy block.  It is powerful. And it is very apparent when we encounter it in our yoga practice, but off the mat it can remain a hidden hindrance to pranidhana (surrender).

We see surrender as giving up, the last resort, when our posture has become a mountain to climb, something to conquer at the edge of the Cliff of Tolerance.  And this is what Hindu philosopher Pantajali (author(s) of the Yoga Sutras, among others) referred to the separation from source. That is, our connection– not to a god outside of us–but to a god within.

Bracing, a thought catches us.  It is frustrating, but also reassuring:

It is an image of the moon waxing.  With each inhale we imagine our body syncing with the moon, meshing with it, observing sensations. An inner call telling us to wax brighter, to inhabit the light and the space around us, and letting gravity’s pull steady us.

We can approach each breath as a brush stroke made on a digital screen that evaporates after it is drawn, or a chalk mural washed clean on a rainy day.  This is mindfulness.  We are alive. Up we go.

So, fly and fail.  Offer your heart and mind by simply exhaling.  Trust me, it’s enough. For now…

Namaste.

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